Sharing Your Journey With Others
Grief is deeply personal, and people who have not experienced it often struggle to understand what it truly feels like. At this stage in your grieving, you may be hearing words that suggest how you should be living or remind you of the possibilities that lie ahead.
Taking Ownership of Your Grief
Do not allow others — no matter how much they care — to tell you how to grieve, what you should feel, or how long it should take. It is okay to take charge and let others know what you need and don’t need right now.
Finding Your Voice
It can help to prepare a few simple responses for moments when advice feels hurtful or overwhelming. Asking for time to think or choosing to respond later gives you space and control.
Sharing Memories and Stories
Taking the lead in talking about your loved one can be healing. Over time, you may hesitate to ask others to listen again. This is one reason grief support groups can be especially helpful — everyone there understands the need to share.
When Relationships Change
Grief can shift relationships. Be gentle with yourself and with others, and remember that even those closest to you cannot read your mind. Let them know what you truly need.
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Moving Forward With Intention
Take charge of your grief. Face it. Educate others. Experience it fully, and trust that healing will come in its own time.
May your journey be filled with peace,
Lee
